A common complaint I hear concerning
The Seven Habits is that Bosley’s ability to travel through time implies that
drugs give you superpowers. The first
time I heard this, I was a little shocked. It never occurred to me that Bosley’s
portion of the story would be interpreted that way. Mainly due to that fact that I never saw his
travels as a superpower, or even any type of “gift” for that matter. Being pulled through the Eye of Aeons, as I
saw it, was a curse if anything.
To begin with, the process is extremely
painful. Chills race through Bosley’s body despite the sheen of sweat
glistening on his skin and he’s wracked with waves of nausea while simultaneously
feeling as though he’s starving. Within seconds, the true pain hits. Bosley
describes it as feeling like millions of tiny fangs ripping and shredding nerve
endings that have been exposed after the skin has been peeled away with a
paring knife. So it’s not exactly a pleasant experience.
On top of this, these travels have
done a real number on his mind. Since time no longer exists as something
linear, the man is never entirely sure what has already happened and what is
yet to come. Past, present, and future are one, big, messy blob. He says he
thinks this is because the human mind wasn’t made to simultaneously exist in
multiple planes of existence, which sounds about right.
But it’s not just how the Eye of
Aeons affects his memory; he’s also been thrown into a world of moral quandaries. One of the reoccurring themes is the ambiguous
nature of morality and in Bosley’s tale he struggles with concepts of right and
wrong constantly. He’s forced to
reassess every notion he’s ever held about right and wrong, to find
justifications for things he never would have done before that Eye opened. And it drains him. He even states a time or
two that he’s wished it never would have happened to him, that he could be just
an ordinary guy doing ordinary things. Since he can’t control these travels,
however, that choice is no longer his to make.
The true superpower in the book, I
think, is the transformative power of love. Bosley is a very self-centered
person. He’s politically incorrect, vulgar, abrasive, and arrogant. Nothing else is as important as his own inner
world. Even his search for enlightenment is fueled by self-serving interests;
as he says in one scene, he is trying to rebuild his ego from the ground up so
he can have everything he’s always wanted, but was too afraid to ask for.
This changes when he’s set down in
Ocean’s consciousness and literally walks in her shoes. For perhaps the first
time in his life, he’s really able to understand and share the feelings of
another. Unfettered by sexual attraction
or thoughts of romance, his love for this young girl is simple and pure. He
only wants what’s best for her, to protect her from a lifetime of suffering,
fear, and heartbreak. There’s absolutely
nothing in it for him, no ulterior motives or personal rewards. And yet he
completely alters the course of his life in an attempt to help her. He becomes selfless.
Do drugs give you superpowers? I
think not. Compassion and empathy, on the other hand….
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